Soft skills

Communication, boundaries, and the non-technical side of a technical career.

If you lead something, you are a captain. A short-sighted captain

17 Aug 2026 — Leading a team, a project or a product? A beginning captain is short-sighted: they don't yet know they have a ship, then they miss the sea and the holes in the hull. School helps. Your own deck teaches more — if you find the holes before you go under.

Vacation: A Guide for Workaholics

29 Jul 2026 — Working on vacation never worked for me, and neither did lying on a beach. What did: mild chaos, active travel, a team that runs without me, and a few rituals for switching off. A field report from a recovering workaholic.

The art of saying no

10 Mar 2025 — Capable people keep getting more work until something breaks. Learning to say no — constructively — is a survival skill, not arrogance.